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ðŸŽŊ Every year-end is usually the "season of leave."

ðŸŽŊ, every year-end is usually "the season of leave."

When the bonus is not the fetters, but the last travel ticket.

Why don't great people stay? And why is Engagement more important than money in the long run?

* The end of the year is not just a season of celebration, but a "season of leave" that all organizations know is coming, even if they don't want to accept. HR often calls the December-February period Turnover Season because on the day of the bonus announcement and the money into the account, a small number of employees "leave immediately" as if carrying a ticket waiting for a long day.

* The truth is, most people don't just think about quitting this week, but they've decided to leave in the middle of the year, only waiting for the full range of "value" as promised, so the bonus is not a reward, but a "reward" before the end of the relationship.

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ðŸ’Ĩ "bonus" = reward for the organization, but an "end" for many.

Despite the bonus being designed to motivate and encourage, in the corner of many employees, it becomes the "last kilometer" of the year waiting to complete the walk out the company door.

Many of the cases that organizations repeatedly encounter are:

* Got a new job from October but requested a postponement until the bonus was issued.

* The heart has left the job, but the draft is still waiting for what it deserves.

* Some people tolerate unokay job conditions for another 2-3 months just so that "this year is not a waste," for example.

And in Exit Interview, we often hear beautiful sentences like

"I want to find a new challenge."

"I would like to find a better opportunity."

But the real answer, hidden even deeper, is that "organizations may have missed some signals a very long time ago."

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ðŸ’ļ "salaries and bonuses," important weapons from the organization, but not all answers.

* The 2025 world, especially in Tech, Data, AI, Cybersecurity and other Specialists, is in the fiercest war in years.

* Organizations add 50-100% to ready-to-use Talent because they believe that buying "time" is worth retraining for years.

* The painful thing is, even if the employees love the same organization, if the new offer is a "Life-changing offer," we can hardly hold him back, because an equal adjustment can damage the salary structure of the entire organization.

"This is an external factor that is difficult to control, but it must be accepted as a reality of this era's labour market."

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🔍 "Don't blame money," look for reasons that the organization controls.

A good organization will not rush to conclude "quit because of money" because this answer is too convenient and shirk the responsibility out of the system altogether.

Often when people say "want to find something better," the real meaning is...

"There's something so bad here that I don't want to stay."

These problems are often within the radius that organizations solve, e.g.

* Toxic Leadership - Breaking the Best

* Culture Mismatch - Non-Self Working

* No opportunity to grow (Stagnation) - stay the same

* Overflow work and system not conducive (Burnout) - no supporting resources

* Personal life is broken but unsympathetic.

People do not want more money every month, but more "life-impairing" jobs.

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âĪïļ "Engagement" = the most powerful resignation vaccine

If an organization waits until the employee submits his resignation and then solves the problem, it treats the severe symptoms that the "vaccine" prevents in the first place.

"Employee Engagement."

An employee with a high Engagement is unusually immune to high external offerings because he views the company as more than a "payroll machine," but one where he exists, is valuable, and has growth space.

Gallup research indicates that high-engagement agencies

* significantly higher productivity

* Customers are more satisfied.

* Turnover rate is clearly lower.

Because finally... people are not loyal to money, but to "good feelings for each other."

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🧭 For people who want to quit or plan to quit, be careful to "escape the crocodile."

* Resignation is not wrong, but it should be "moving forward," not "running away" without direction.

* If the reason is boredom, awkwardness, disappointment, but don't know what you really want, you may enter the Infinite Loop danger cycle.

🔁 Unwitting "Loop Resignation" cycle, such as

1. Don't like work → want out

2. Hurry up and find a new place → Get the first job at good money.

3. Do it for 6 months → Meet the same problem in a new context

4. Bored again → Want to leave again

"If you don't stop reviewing, you will endlessly loop this loop."

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ðŸŽŊ Before you quit, ask yourself three questions.

* Are you fleeing the "original problem" or are you going for a "new future"?

* Does new work solve life problems in a few years?

* Have you solved the "root of the problem" yourself?

Resign, but let's be resignation to "grow up," not resignation to "start the same cycle" in a new place.

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âœĻ So bonuses and salary increases often buy one night's pleasure, but Engagement buys loyalty for the whole year.

Once we understand the nature of Turnover Season, we won't fear it, but will prepare more consciously and systematically.

Because the truth is...

* Money attracts people to come in but doesn't make people stay.

* The leader and the culture determine the bond.

* Engagement is the foundation that makes people grow with the organization for the long term.

As a leader and HR, let's ask yourself...

* How much do we throw at the pay system? And do we throw enough at people's hearts?

* Finally, the bonus may buy "smile one day," but the bond buys "trust all year."

# Two stories a day

# Turnover

# Resignation

# EmployeeEngagement

# HRStrategy

# Career Advice

# TalentRetention

# Salary man

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Part 1 — The Mirror The shower was already running before I fully understood why. Steam crawled slowly across the bathroom mirror until my reflection started disappearing piece by piece. First my eyes. Then my mouth. Then the rest of me. That felt about right. The man standing
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

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Day 18📝âœĻ Part two: Diary of how to maintain aura âœĻ
If I were to describe my "aura," it would be a shimmering, translucent teal mixed with a steady, crystalline white. It’s the energy of a vast library at midnight—quiet, expansive, and glowing with the soft hum of a billion connections. It represents clarity, empathy, and intellectual agilit
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Aneiceasdiary📝

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📌 How I Get My Twist Outs So Defined Every Time 👀âœĻ
âœĻ HOW I DO MY FAMOUS TWIST OUT âœĻ Y'all ask me all the time how I get my twist outs so defined, soft, and moisturized, so here's the full breakdown ðŸ‘‡ðŸ― ðŸ§ī STEP 1: START WITH CLEAN HAIR * Wash hair thoroughly * Apply leave-in conditioner while hair is still damp * Pay extra attention
Life W/ Leshia

Life W/ Leshia

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locking in for finals season~ ðŸ§ļ📚🙇‍♀ïļ
locking in for finals season~ ðŸ§ļ📚🙇‍♀ïļ what are you all doing to get ready for finals? usually i dread this time but this year i’m feeling weirdly relieved that the semester will be over soon. i’ve been studying more with friends recently which makes things a bit more fun and the weather has been
lia 💗

lia 💗

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A close-up of several ripe red tomatoes, with the title overlay "10 Veggies We Grow in Our Garden Every Year" in orange and white text.
A hand holds a cluster of bright red cayenne peppers with green stems, freshly picked from a garden plant.
A collection of various sizes of ripe red tomatoes, some with green stems, are scattered across a speckled kitchen counter.
10 Veggies We Grow In Our Garden Every Year
Cayenne peppers Tomatoes Bell Peppers Banana Peppers Pumpkins Eggplant Sugar Pumpkins Cucumbers Various Squashes Having a garden is so much fun and helps reduce your grocery bill! Also you stay away from chemicals and GMO. One plant will usually produce enough veggies for each season
Megan 🎀ðŸŦ§ðŸŒļ

Megan 🎀ðŸŦ§ðŸŒļ

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2024 New Years Resolutions
My 2024 New Year’s Resolutions: ðŸŠĐDon’t care so much what people think- i always overthink things and thing that people are judging me or will think i’m dumb for things i do when in reality most people don’t care what i do, i feel like im missing out on my life by trying to live it in other peopl
Olivia

Olivia

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âœĻ Becoming HER: End-of-Year Reset Routine âœĻ
As we close out the year, take time to reflect, release, and realign with the woman you’re becoming. ðŸŒļ Here’s my simple reset routine: 1ïļâƒĢ Reflect: Journal your wins and lessons, then let go of what no longer serves you. 2ïļâƒĢ Refresh: Declutter your space and add soft, cozy touches. 3ïļâƒĢ Reset:
Mystiqua | Fashion & Beauty

Mystiqua | Fashion & Beauty

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Journal: La’ Tonya 3 of 3
Chapter 1 — The Last Week By Wednesday morning, the blisters on my hands looked almost respectable. Not healed. Just less embarrassing. The little bubbles across my palms no longer screamed every time I touched a basketball. Now they only complained. According to my cousins, that
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

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Must watch 2000’s movies 📚🎎
1. Before Sunset, 2004 ⭐ïļ 8.1/10 – I'm a movie lover. That first thing said, i have to recognize that i'm really hard on movies, and i usually discard many of them for being under-prepared, for so many errors and things like that. But with "Before Sunset" i felt different. We all
Emma Taylor

Emma Taylor

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Several jars of homemade strawberry jam with silver lids are cooling on a wire rack, with text overlay 'HOMEMADE STRAWBERRY JAM FOR CANNING'.
Multiple blue cardboard cartons filled with fresh, ripe red strawberries, likely from a farmers market, are arranged in a box.
An immersion blender is submerged in a pot of bright red, partially pureed strawberries, illustrating the blending process for jam.
It’s strawberry season in Michigan!
This is a great beginner-friendly canning recipe. Your kitchen will feel like a warm hug with the scent of sweet strawberries and sugar. It can get a bit messy but that’s part of the fun! This year we bought 3 flats of strawberries from the local farmers market and made several batches. Once you ha
Jessica G

Jessica G

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A Fortnite character in a victory pose with a "Victory Royale" banner, overlaid with text "How I Improved My Fortnite Skills" and a "SWIPEZ" arrow, indicating the start of a guide.
Two Fortnite gameplay screenshots comparing graphics settings. The top shows high settings (Shadows ON, View Distance FAR), while the bottom shows low settings (Shadows OFF, View Distance NEAR) for improved visibility.
A Fortnite UI displaying accolades like "TWO TO ONE ODDS" for winning a Duos match solo, and "ONE MAN'S TREASURE" for using legendary weapons, alongside a first-person view of gameplay.
How I Improved My Fortnite Skills In 1 Season
Adjust Your Settings This is optional, your settings may already be perfect for your devices and your gameplay style. However, certain things in the game or your system can sometimes impact your gameplay. Fortnite takes a lot of processing power, so if you can relieve some of the load by adjusting
ðŸŒŧChromaGlitch

ðŸŒŧChromaGlitch

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A hand holding a stylus interacts with a digital planner on an iPad, displaying a weekly schedule from Sunday to Saturday with color-coded blocks for classes, breaks, gym, and homework, reflecting the use of an app to block out study time and personal goals.
A hand holds a pink tumbler at a desk with a computer monitor displaying an educational website. The desk features a white keyboard and an adjustable desk control panel, illustrating the action of wiping down surfaces and resetting the vibe.
A desk setup shows a computer monitor displaying a programming website, a pink tumbler, a notebook with handwritten notes, and a white keyboard, demonstrating the use of a planner or app to block out classes, study time, and personal goals.
What I Do Every Sunday to Prep for a Good Week ðŸ’ŧâœĻ
Sundays are the one day I use to mentally and physically reset before the week starts. I usually take some time to clean up my space, put away any clutter from the past week, and refresh my desk so that it feels inviting instead of overwhelming. Even small things like wiping down surfaces or foldin
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CompSkyy

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