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[50s] Recently, it's troublesome to go out... Is this aging? The perspective of an active manipulative therapist for over 20 years

Recently,

"It became troublesome to go out."

Isn't that true?

When I was young,

👉 want to go!

Just as I thought, my body followed me.

But from about the 50s,

Even if your head thinks "it looks fun,"

The body first,

👉 walk

👉 people

👉 eat

👉 move

👉 coming back.

I think about being so tired.

I'm gonna take this.

👉 body is calculating the cost of travel.

I think that.

So, uh,

Can I stay at home today?

Become.

But the head is really,

👉 want to enjoy.

👉 want to laugh.

👉 want stimulation.

I don't go out because my body gets tired.

My head is not filled.

The body does not move.

And also,

It becomes troublesome to go out.

So if it's me,

I don't go on a trip suddenly 😊

👉 10 dispersion steps

👉 nearby cafe

👉 see the sea by car

👉 in the morning sun

First to the body,

"It's okay to go out"

Increase the experience little by little.

When the body is ready,

More and more places I want to go.

Aesthetics too.

Curiosity too.

Also playful.

Too lazy to go out.

Not because my heart is old,

👉 a sign that your body is tired.

First, try to prepare your body 😊

Save it.

Look back on the day you thought, "I might go out a little today ✨

You are still beautiful.

☀️ continue to deliver Sunpower from Beppu ☀️

Health from the 50s Women in their 50s Easy to get tired Health QandA Habits of Organizing

8/6 Edited to

... Read more私も50代を迎え、最近同じような「出かけるのが面倒」という気持ちを感じ始めました。仕事や家庭の用事で疲れ果てた日、外に出るのが億劫になるのは単なる甘えではなく、体が「移動コスト」を計算してエネルギーを使うことを躊躇しているのかもしれません。 特に私の場合、出かけることで歩いたり、人と会ったりといった行動に対する身体の疲労を無意識に感じてしまいます。そのため頭では「出かけて楽しみたい」という気持ちがあるのに、身体が先に疲労を感じて「今日はやめておこう」となってしまいます。 しかし、この記事の整体師のアドバイス通り、いきなり長時間の外出や旅行を計画するのではなく、まずは10分の散歩や近くのカフェに行く、小さな変化から始めることで身体が慣れてきました。この小さな成功体験が身体の疲れのサインを軽減し、出かける意欲が徐々に増してきています。 また、朝日を浴びるために車で海を見に行くなど、無理のない範囲で自然にも触れる時間を作ることは、心身のリフレッシュに繋がります。これにより美意識や好奇心も刺激され、「出かけるのが面倒だ」という気持ちが少しずつ薄れていくのを実感しています。 体が疲れているサインを見逃さず、自分のペースで身体を整えていくことが、元気な50代を過ごす鍵だと強く感じています。みなさんも「今日は少しだけ外に出ようかな」と感じた日には、無理せず小さな一歩から始めてみてはいかがでしょうか。身体を労わることで、心の充実も取り戻せるようになりました。

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