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I’ve realized something…

I have been with my bf for 1-1/2 years and I have been having feelings that I want to break up with him…idk how to do it tho. I have told him a number of times that I wanna break up but he continues to just not leave. This makes me second guess my feeling…it also makes me blame my mental health…what should I do…

#hurtsme #breakup #howto #sad #fyp

2024/6/8 Edited to

Navigating relationship doubts can be incredibly challenging. If you've been with your boyfriend for a significant period and are considering breaking up, it's crucial to reflect on your feelings and the reasons behind them. Consider having a more direct conversation with him about your feelings. Sometimes, partners can miss cues or not fully understand the underlying issues. Try to express your feelings in a calm and clear manner. Sharing your thoughts about needing space or feeling mentally burdened may help clarify things. Additionally, reflecting on your own mental health is essential. Stress, anxiety, or unresolved issues can deeply affect your perspective on relationships. It might be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or a professional to sort through your feelings. This ensures that your decision is not purely reactionary but is well thought out. Lastly, remember that it is okay to prioritize yourself. Breaking up is a significant life decision and it's important to take the time you need to make the best choice for your wellbeing.

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