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2 Friends gang drama! How to cope?

🛑 2 Friends Gang Drama! Break down a luxury bag & a copy friend. How to cope? 👯‍♀️💬

Hello, Lemon 🍋, today I have two problems in the Social Dilemmas, according to the advice of an outside city expert, so I can say that these things are a complete dilemma!

👉 Right swipe, see the summary of the problem, and How to cope in the slide, huh? ➡️

1️⃣ The case of breaking a friend's bag: Walking to reclaim a full number of friends without talking first is very rude, huh. The most fair solution is to "split the cost" because the owner also has to take the risk of carrying luxury items in public.

2️⃣ Copycat: Many people come across this and don't dare to talk because they're afraid of being stupid, but experts say, "You have the right to feel uncomfortable!" Being copied everything really destroys yourself.

The trick is not to hold your frustration for ten years. Use an I-Statement sentence to explain, "We want to keep this piece alone. We want to feel like we have our own style." Don't go to him. Just draw our boundaries clearly.

Lemon 8 people have ever met a friend of the most difficult style, huh? Or if a friend asks for every set of clothes we wear, how do you have a smooth rejection? Comment to share a trick. 👇

Please press Save as a solution and press the heart to encourage. 💖✨

# Q & A # About friends # Relationship issues # Social etiquette # Lemon 8 Men

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