The other day I read something on a klient check in that triggered my brain to reach out and ask a deeper question

“whats stopping you from getting these workouts in? Can you walk me through everything leading up to the workout”

She then sent me voice messages about how she’s been re-organizing the workouts and adding in runs so that she could sweat more

BINGO

It was clear to me that she STILL thought that she needed to sweat like crazy in order for this to feel like a proper workout

within 10 minutes of going back and forth, she shared an emotional voice message saying that she’s happy that she has me 🥹🥹🥹 She was aligning her self worth with sweat

neither of us expected the conversation would go in this direction, but its all because I read between the lines and she was receptive to me digging deeper

I then went to our kommunity group chat and had the rest of the Kueenz (klients) talk about their results when they switched their mindsets from sweating like crazy, to taking more breaks on a structured program

and obbviiouusslllyy their results were amazing duuhh 💁🏿♀️💁🏿♀️😌😌

But I dd this because reassurance from other women who once felt EXATLY how she was feeling was the cherry on top

All this to say. The reason why you’re stuck where you are is because you’re following fitness habits that someone made up. Now you get frustrated that you don’t get results from it or can’t stay committed

soo if you’re someone who is looking for guidance like this so you can feel confident on the beach this summer

Komment “Koach” and I’ll be with you in a moment

-kooooacch

p.s go drink some water

5/28 Edited to

... Read moreFrom my experience coaching clients, one of the biggest mindset shifts that leads to real progress is letting go of the idea that a workout must be painful or dripping with sweat to be effective. Many people believe that unless they’re sweating buckets, they aren't truly working hard — but this can often lead to burnout, frustration, or even injury. I've seen clients who reorganize their workouts to include excessive cardio simply because they think more sweat equals better results. However, what really matters is adherence to a well-structured program that balances effort and recovery. When clients learn to honor their body’s signals and incorporate breaks into their routines, their performance and results improve drastically. A key part of this process is unpacking deep-seated beliefs about fitness and self-worth. It's common for women especially to link how much they sweat to their value or success. This emotional attachment can sabotage motivation and lead to negative feelings around exercise. When you shift your focus to consistent, sustainable habits — such as following a progressive workout plan, eating nourishing foods, and giving your body time to rest — you build confidence and see better long-term results. Sweating is just one aspect of fitness and doesn’t define progress. This approach aligns with what I tell my clients: being healthy isn’t about shrinking yourself or punishing your body. It’s about breaking free from these myths and building a lifestyle that feels empowering and enjoyable. Surrounding yourself with a supportive community that understands these struggles can also be a game-changer, providing reassurance and motivation. If you’re stuck in the cycle of chasing sweat and intensity, I encourage you to reconsider your fitness habits. Focus on the quality of your workouts, listen to your body, and remember that self-worth is not measured by sweat — it’s measured by how you feel and grow on your fitness journey.

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