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5 ways to stop blaming yourself for making mistakes and hating yourself

5 ways to stop blaming yourself for your mistakes

Until hating myself (with solution)

Who's been like this?

👉 want to take care of yourself, want to be beautiful, want to be shapely

👉 want to improve yourself, have a better life.

But can't do enough

→ Well, it feels guilty → stressed → and then the more it feels dislike for itself.

I can't do it. I can't do it.

Until a loop like this

- I don't like life or myself. I only see bugs.

- I want a slim body.

- I want life better.

- Find a way to do it.

- I can't do it or stop. I feel guilty.

- Stress, drain, find a way out, eat.

- Fat. Poor health.

- I don't feel good about puppets and my life.

- Back to the way it was...

The teacher was that person before.

That doesn't like puppets themselves

Life itself

Wanna get better

But when I can't, the more I hate & blame myself

To bring these five things to life better.

All-round.

Both

1. Finance

2. Love

3 Health

Exclude exactly what happened and how to "unlock" it. 👇

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