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The Real Reason Children Don't Listen

Busy time in the morning.

"Hurry up!"

Even though I said,

Suddenly started playing with toys,

Start picking up trash on the floor 😂

Why now!?

Do you ever think that? 🥲

I have many times.

But actually,

It seems that the child is not intentionally trying to annoy them.

For adults,

I have a job.

I have plans.

There's no time.

So always

We are moving while thinking about the "next schedule."

But children are different.

I want to do it now.

I want to play now.

I'm curious now.

Crazy about what's in front of you 😌

I mean,

adults and children.

I live in a different time.

If you think so,

"Why can't you do it?"

Not that

"I guess that's the time now."

I feel like it makes me feel a little easier 🌸

Of course,

There are days when I can't afford that in the morning 😂

How's the morning at everyone's house?

The morning episode,

Please tell me ✨

There is parenting

Mom's real intention

Childcare troubles

Life with children.

# morning _ flutter

1 day agoEdited to

私も朝の時間に子供が言うことを聞かず、焦ってしまうことがよくあります。実際に経験して感じたのは、子供は本当に「今」この瞬間を大切にしていて、大人が思うように時間を管理したり先を見通すことが難しいということです。例えば、私が「早くしなさい！」と言っても、子供は玩具に夢中だったり、突然床のゴミに気づいて拾い始めたります。このような行動は反抗ではなく、子供の純粋な興味や感覚に根ざしているのです。この違いを理解することが、親としてのイライラを軽減し、子育ての質を上げる第一歩でした。さらに、忙しい朝に余裕がなくても、子供の「今」を尊重するために、小さな声かけや簡単なルールを作ることが助けになりました。例えば、「あと5分でおもちゃは片付けるよ」と時間の目安を伝えたり、一緒に床を掃除するなど、子供と同じ時間軸にいて寄り添う方法を実践しています。また、同じ悩みを持つ親御さんと情報交換をすることも有効です。SNSやママ友との会話で、「朝のバタバタあるある」を共有し合うことで、気持ちが楽になり、改善策のヒントも見つかります。このように、子供が言うことを聞かない本当の理由を理解し、時間軸の違いを認めながら工夫することで、毎日の育児のストレスを減らし、子供との関係もより良く築けると実感しています。皆さんの朝のエピソードもぜひ参考にしたいです！

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