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Good love won't make you lower your standards.

Good love won't make you lower your standards.

Sometimes...

His disappearance

Not as hurt as us

"Start to stray from yourself."

We think a lot

We wait

We tried to understand him.

Until forgetting to ask the most important question...

"Like this... am I really okay?"

A powerful woman.

Not someone who doesn't feel

But is the person who

Feeling... and not betraying yourself

She might still be open.

She's probably still warm.

But she won't.

Lowering yourself

To keep who?

Yes love

Shouldn't make you guess.

Shouldn't make you have to.

"Think for the other person all the time."

And shouldn't make you

Feel yourself "having to try to be on one side."

If he wants to stay,

He will "stay."

Not just when he's convenient.

But in a way that you "can feel."

And the day you start choosing yourself,

You would understand that...

You never have to pursue anyone.

Because the right person

Will "walk in."

Without you losing yourself a little.

😍

With love from the heart

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