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I gave myself a time out .. and here's why

You don’t have to explain the tears, the overwhelm, or the quiet moments when it all crashes down. If you’ve ever needed five minutes just to fall apart and start again—this space is for you.

#singleparent #timeout #struggles

2025/6/12 Edited to

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Carolline Grenier,🇨🇦

single mom of a 28 year old young man with autism I have had more than a few of those days some days are heavier than others did it all without any support and I am proud of my son

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