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Stop talking to people because they catch milk.

We talked for over 2 months. In the beginning, he said honor, tried to be patient. After starting to hit the hand intentionally, we banned it all the time. One day, he caught it straight, we were not very okay, but he didn't care, didn't ask us if it was okay, didn't ask us any feelings, so we stopped talking. He said to adapt, wouldn't do it again. Should we go back? I don't know if other people think this is a little or something, but we don't like it is not like.

But we like that he takes us out to eat, hang out in different places. When working, he helps us to pick up and drop off. But when buying things or eating things, most of us are not paying for any food. Is this strange or normal? But in my heart, I think he has paid for the car fuel.

# lemon 8 diary

2025/11/20 Edited to

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