Standing in the cold taught me this…
“I didn’t realise how much this would mean to me…”
This photo…
was taken in the cold -10 🥶
Standing there… waiting…
hands freezing…
almost wanted to give up and walk away already 😅
But I stayed a while more.
And when the bird finally appeared…
it just sat there quietly…
like it wasn’t in a rush at all.
And I remember thinking…
Wah… thank you ah 😆
Coz last time, I would have just left.
Too cold.
Too long.
Too uncertain.
I would think, “aiya, maybe not meant for me.”
But now… I’m a bit different.
I’m learning to be a bit more patient.
To give things a bit more time.
To not walk away so fast.
Coz some things…
just take longer to show up.
And it doesn’t mean it’s not coming.
Still got moments I feel a bit “ehhh…” 😆
but I don’t spiral like before.
I just pause…
remind myself… okay one… take it easy.
And honestly…
I’m really thankful to God for this kind of calm now.
Last time, I might blame this, blame that…
everything also not right.
Now at least… I know how to slow down,
breathe… and trust a bit more.
Not perfect.
But I’m growing 💛
What about U?
Are U someone who waits… or walks away first?
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I’m someone who used to be very impatient, always wanting things to move fast. But life’s challenges have slowly taught me the value of slowing down.