Healed me is meaner by the way. 🩵
Healed me is meaner by the way.
I used to think healing meant becoming softer all the time.
Sometimes it actually means:
saying no faster,
walking away sooner,
trusting your own instincts,
and finally believing in yourself the first time. 🩵
Healing isn't always a gentle, softening process; sometimes, it's about becoming stronger and more assertive. From personal experience, I’ve found that healing involves recognizing when to say no without guilt and walking away from situations that no longer serve your wellbeing. At first, I believed healing was about being more tolerant or forgiving, but I've come to understand that real growth means honoring your feelings quickly and confidently. Trusting your own instincts plays a crucial role, especially when navigating relationships or making important life decisions. Living in Cheyenne, Wyoming, I’ve experienced how the quiet surroundings encourage self-reflection and strength. You learn to listen closely to your inner voice and respond without hesitation. This newfound conviction makes me 'meaner' in the best way—more protective of my energy and time. An unexpected part of healing can be embracing a tougher attitude, not as a sign of bitterness but as a shield of self-respect. This approach helped me avoid toxic situations and find peace more quickly. Healing also taught me to trust myself the first time around rather than doubting my perception or second-guessing decisions. Incorporating these lessons into daily life might mean declining invitations that drain you or walking away from arguments that don’t benefit you. It also means setting clear boundaries and recognizing your worth without apologies. Healing isn't a linear path, and its meanings evolve. For some, like me, it’s about cultivating inner strength and self-belief, which can feel 'meaner' but ultimately leads to a healthier, more empowered self.
