Comment responding in my luteal phase like.. #pmdd
Did you know that not knowing who someone is is a badge of social media honor?
I love writing and sharing my perspective on common social media comment tropes. I’m so happy that I got this comment because this is a “rebuttal” I see on social media almost as much as “she’s mid, bro.”
And I think both of these comments have become tropes for a reason.. people feel a lot better when they can find a little reprieve from looking inward and feeling disappointed, so they search for catharsis in expressing their disappointment in people they don’t know, because people you don’t know, a computer screen romantically sandwiched between you and them, are easy targets.
“Who is this anyway” or “I don’t even know who you are” are the new “What a nobody” and in my case and I actually made this comment recently in relation to my “beef” with Dane Cook, yes, I’m a nobody. But just because I’m a “nobody” doesn’t mean that I don’t have an audience *somewhere,* albeit small.
And when I got this comment it was on my “Please stop saying I’m AI photo.” In this instance being aware of who I am is irrelevant. I don’t need to be a somebody to be able to express my dismay at being compared to a robot or a creation of AI by people who do happen to see me on here or otherwise. Nobodies are allowed to share their experiences and be seen, Bruce. It’s ok.
“Don’t engage with these people! You’re just giving them power!” But what if.. it’s fun? I have no idea who Bruce is. I’m sure he’s a nice guy. But I think he’s a comedian in his own right, as am I, and when two comedians come together they become a comedy duo. We need more of those nowadays. Teamwork makes the dream work, Bruce. Thank u
With the rise of PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), many individuals find themselves navigating heightened emotional reactions, especially in social media interactions. The luteal phase, occurring after ovulation and before menstruation, can amplify feelings of anxiety and irritability, often leading people to react strongly to online comments. Understanding PMDD is crucial; it’s not just a pre-menstrual condition but a serious mood disorder that affects how individuals engage with others. The phenomenon of needing to express disappointment towards anonymous figures on social media can be deeply tied to feelings of disempowerment and frustration that many experience. In this context, the comment “Who are you anyway?” serves as a shield for deeper insecurities. For individuals living with PMDD, recognizing these patterns can be empowering. Further studies have shown that finding community in shared experiences, even among 'nobodies,' can offer valuable emotional support. Sharing personal struggles, as highlighted in various support groups, allows users to transform negative comments into an opportunity for understanding and connection. It’s important to remember that in a world where everyone seems to judge from behind a screen, expressing oneself honestly can foster not only personal healing but communal solidarity. Next time you encounter disparaging remarks online, consider the source. Is it a reflection of their view, or is it a chance for you to stand in your truth? Engaging with these comments could simply be a humorous way to cope with everyday social media dynamics.
