Am I just doing life wrong

I don’t wear dresses or shorts or skirts ever because of this reason but I’ve always wanted to. I will never understand how girls can wear a dress with only panties underneath and not flash anyone or be stressed about it the entire time. I would wear shorts, but I feel stupid because ever girl I’ve talked to says they only wear panties underneath. Please explain how people can do this. I feel like I’m naked when I do this, even just with shorts that are a little loose I’m scared. Also, razor bumps. For short shorts, how do you not have them show?

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2025/1/30 Edited to

... Read moreWearing dresses, skirts, or shorts can be daunting for many. This article addresses common concerns about potential wardrobe malfunctions, specifically for those who feel uncomfortable with the idea of wearing minimal undergarments. When it comes to wearing skirts or dresses, many women suggest choosing styles that have built-in shorts or are lined, which can help prevent unwanted exposure. Moreover, using fashion tape can strategically keep garments in place. For those worried about razor bumps when wearing shorts, consider different hair removal methods such as waxing or using an electric trimmer that minimizes irritation. Fabrics also play a role; opting for looser and breathable materials can alleviate discomfort. Finally, remember that confidence often comes from feeling comfortable in your outfit choices. Ultimately, it's important to wear what makes you feel good, as personal style is about expressing oneself.

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hot take: underwear is the covering, like i don’t get why everyone freaks out about seeing underwear, it’s literally covering the thing that you don’t want seen

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I wear spandex under mine or I buy skirts with built in shorts!!

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