Something has to give

moments like these i usually do not share

of me so upset. overwhelmed, lost,desperate.

the healthcare system sometimes makes us chronically ill folks feel worse than better from the lack of knowledge and education and resources they dont provide to patients as they dont have any.

if you have followed me on TikTok you may already know how many health conditions I have , lack of resources or help some doctors only can do so much, mediciad telling me to move is not a solution there are so many struggles I constantly fight for care and i just shut down.

i cant afford the help i can get maybe some actual help possibly, all out of pocket but as someone on low income there's no way I can afford it.

Cant go out of state for better care as NC mediciad policy's suck im tired of mediciad insurance. they wouldnt cover a thing out of pocket

I feel the system is just ruining my life more days go by. I still have hopes,dreams,ambitions to do things and want to be successful I dont want to be stuck like this much longer, there has to be things i can do to get off the system and earn a income, I want to feel like my own self.

the lack of doctors not listening to my troubles with nutrition, hydration, ostomate care. they do what they can and just send me on my way. its mentally & physically exhausting. fighting for you're care its a full time job. #patientadvocate #chronicillness #healthcare #healthcarefailure

North Carolina
4/25 Edited to

... Read moreLiving with multiple chronic illnesses comes with daily battles that go beyond the physical symptoms. From my personal experience, the healthcare system often seems unprepared to support complex needs, leaving patients feeling neglected and overwhelmed. One of the toughest challenges is dealing with limited Medicaid coverage, especially in states like North Carolina where policies can restrict access to out-of-state care or specialized treatments. For individuals relying on Medicaid and living on low income, the prospect of paying out-of-pocket for necessary assistance or therapies can be daunting and sometimes impossible. Doctors may do their best within their constraints, but the lack of communication and thorough understanding of issues like nutrition, hydration, and ostomate care can leave patients feeling dismissed. This leads to a cycle of unmanaged symptoms and mounting frustration, which catastrophically impacts mental health. Advocating for oneself becomes a full-time job, often exhausting both mentally and physically. Connecting with patient advocacy groups and chronic illness communities online has been invaluable for emotional support and sharing resources. Educating oneself about available programs, alternative therapies, and local non-profits can sometimes open doors to unexpected help. Despite these hardships, maintaining hope and ambition is essential. Small goals towards regaining independence, like exploring remote work or freelance opportunities suited to one’s abilities, can put patients back in control of their lives. For anyone facing similar struggles, remember that you are not alone, and pushing for better care and understanding is worth the effort. Sharing your story might not only help you but also illuminate the very real gaps in our healthcare system that need urgent attention.

5 comments

See more comments

Related posts

Something has to give
I just finished my Sunday sprints and Kaspur just does what he does, gets on Mr. Treadmill and lays there, watching me actively dying, trying to catch my breath. I needed oxygen, Emergency 🆘, 911, HELP & mans didn’t care… 😩 P.S: I think I’m falling inlove with the sprints 🫣 but they’re als
DestinedbyKay

DestinedbyKay

3 likes

Trying something different
Trying Ultra Berberine after doing some personal research and reading up on reviews, I wanted to give it a try! I will start off with a 1-week review and then hopefully be able to see that I stayed consistent for at least a month. I’m excited to see how my appetite is suppressed and any other n
lemon5276794414

lemon5276794414

476 likes

What’s something good has done for you..
Share something good God has done for you and give thanks to the Lord 🤍! I’ll go first: God has woken me up everyday this week, He has also given me the amazing chance to officially enlist into the US ARMY. Pray for my safety in times of travel and unfamiliarity. All Glory to the Lord. What goo
Savannah Caban

Savannah Caban

35 likes

Lucy has something important to tell you…
#dogsoflemon8
Gabby & Her Dogs

Gabby & Her Dogs

8 likes

Shows that give summer vibes
1. Something's Gotta Give, 2003 ⭐️6.7/10 – This movie took me by surprise, I wasn't sure if I could handle watching old actors getting it on but this movie turned out to be a great romantic comedy. Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton always give their 100% best in their performances, they did
Emma Taylor

Emma Taylor

27 likes

I have something to tell you…
Nickwilkins

Nickwilkins

4478 likes

A tablet displays the movie poster for 'A Madea Christmas,' featuring Madea and several Santas. The screen also shows the title 'Something a Little Different Christmas Movie Part 3' and a prompt to swipe.
A tablet shows a scene from 'Nothing Like the Holidays,' where Anna (Elizabeth Pena) raises a glass at a Christmas family gathering. The screen also displays the movie title, rating, and synopsis.
A tablet displays a scene from 'A Madea Christmas,' featuring an elf statue and a 'NORTH POL' sign, with people and a Christmas tree in the background. The movie title and review text are also visible.
Something a Little Different Christmas Movie Part3
1. Nothing Like the Holidays, 2008 ⭐️Rate: 6/10 🎬Review: (Synopsis) The whole Rodriguez family is rejoicing and celebrating the reunion of all of their family members coming together to be with their father, Edy Rodriguez (Alfred Molina), and their mother, Anna (Elizabeth Pena), in their Chic
Amanda Leigh

Amanda Leigh

40 likes

Trying Something New
Something has to give 😩 after my son was born I had my tubes completely removed. Not tied or cauterized, completely taken outta my body. Both of my kids are birth control babies so birth control did not work for me. But then ever since I had my tubes removed my period cramps get worse and worse eve
KayyKutiee(:

KayyKutiee(:

13 likes

A red retail display stand in a store aisle features numerous red makeup compacts, many labeled with a brand name. Overlays express surprise at finding a specific cosmetic brand at a beauty supply store, with emojis of brown-skinned women.
Black girl Sephora has TIRTIR????
Y’all, I was just minding my business at my go-to beauty supply store (aka my local Black girl Sephora) when I stumbled across something I never expected to see in person—the TIRTIR Mask Fit Red Cushion! 😱 If you’re on TikTok BeautyTok, you already know this red cushion compact has been going vi
Urstylistbestie

Urstylistbestie

1032 likes

WHY THE HECK DO PEOPLE GIVE THINGS UP FOR LENT?!?!
The season of Lent is a forty-day period leading up to Easter Sunday. It is a time where we are called to enter into a spirit of penance, self-denial, and charity. This is an imitation of the forty days that Jesus spent in the desert, fasting and praying in the face of temptation in preparation for
maya!!❤️‍🔥🇻🇦

maya!!❤️‍🔥🇻🇦

45 likes

A collection of laundry products including Downy Rinse & Refresh Cool Cotton, all free & clear detergent, and Downy Cool Cotton in-wash scent booster, displayed on a metal surface.
A close-up of a Downy Rinse & Refresh bottle in Cool Cotton scent, highlighting its 3X odor power and fabric rinse function.
A close-up of a large bottle of all free & clear laundry detergent, emphasizing its perfume and dye-free formula for sensitive skin.
Has anyone else tried this?
Listen when you are doing your laundry, I have one product that I strongly suggest you add to your laundry routine. Even though this scent is my least favorite so far (Cool Cotton)! There is something called Downy Rinse and Refresh! Have you seen? Have you heard about it? If you haven’t h
mskkwitdat

mskkwitdat

438 likes

Bible Study Went Something Like This Today🎚️📝🌸
#studythebiblewithme #biblenotes #changeyourlife #faithoverfear #letgoletgod
TheLifeWithDenicia✨🦋🎥💗

TheLifeWithDenicia✨🦋🎥💗

20 likes

A young woman with red-streaked hair and a brown hoodie looks up with eyes rolled back, outdoors on a sunny day. Overlay text reads "TWENTY something" and "lessons, regret and wishes at 25."
A woman in a brown crop top and pink pants takes a mirror selfie, making a face. Overlay text lists "Well learned LESSONS" including self-love, accepting loss, validating feelings, and not overreacting.
A close-up selfie of a woman outdoors, with green grass in the background. Overlay text lists "Things I regret In Life," such as not prioritizing family, caring too much about others, and neglecting mental health.
✨twenty something check-in✨
something about life lately has me reflecting on everything. I’m currently in a place where I’m so lost but at the same time, more stable than I’ve ever been. I just don’t get why I don’t feel accomplished. And not in the sense of “I’m where I want to be and everything is perfect” but in a way of “
Lo 💗

Lo 💗

22 likes

TRYING SOMETHING NEW
Has anybody tried these , I’ve been seeing them all over the place and wanted to give them a try . #kodiakproteinpackedmix #Lemon8Diary #foodideas
Brittany 🫶🏾

Brittany 🫶🏾

1 like

Something Got To Give , I’m Tired Out Fr
Thinking yesterday reset would make my morning better. Now I wake up again to more bs I’m so tired it’s like I want to cry right now. I couldn’t even take a recent picture right now. Because how heart broken I am. I just got out the shower & listen to gospel and calling on Jesus reading psalms
OH_DaaTBiiGLeeLee

OH_DaaTBiiGLeeLee

19 likes

An open Bible displaying various verses, with a pink overlay stating "3 bible verses for the broken hearted" prominently in the center. The bottom left corner shows "Lemon8 @britsecret".
A close-up of Bible text from Psalm 34:18-19, with some phrases highlighted in pink, offering comfort to the brokenhearted. The text includes "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted" and "delivers him from them all".
A close-up of Bible text from Matthew 11:28-29, with some phrases highlighted in pink, inviting the weary and burdened to find rest. The text includes "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."
Don't suffer alone ♡ Give it to God
☆ Psalm 34:18-19 ☆ Matthew 11:28-29 ☆ John 14:1-4 ♡ Don't give up. God has a plan for you ♡ It is okay to cry, but get up the next day. ♡ Give your burdens to Jesus ♡ Love yourself as you are more valuable than rubies ♡ If you didn't get something you wanted, God has something great
Brit

Brit

43 likes

Never give up 🌸
Good morning, here’s your Monday motivation ! Never give up 👏🏽 Nothing comes easy in life and honestly nothing is supposed to. Life has so many different outcomes you could never imagine how many ways you can achieve something. So never give up ! No dream or goal is UNREALISTIC and never let anyone
MeMe🌿

MeMe🌿

84 likes

SKIN: Products that give that filter finish
First off let me say, full video with descriptions of products is on my tik tok @ionaburciaga!! If you are more into visual stuff watch it there. otherwise, If you are a reader, i’ll list the products down below ↓ ↓ ↓ ⭐️ Face wash: K beauty water based face wash. - this is what i’m currently
ionaburciaga

ionaburciaga

27 likes

Learning Something New
Lately, I’ve been in a funk due to my back being messed up so I wanted to learn a new craft crocheting is such a great hobby I would definitely recommend this for beginners. It has videos to show you everything that you need to do very self-explanatory. I’ll give this a 10 out of 10. #Lemon8Diary
Lyriclyree

Lyriclyree

6 likes

Something Great is Going to Happen! ✨🌸🫶
I can usually tell when a blessing is around the corner because just before it happens, it seems like it’s just one thing after another. I know it’s the enemy’s way of trying to distract me and make me give up, but in my 31 years of living, I’ve learned how to keep a smile on my face and GO EVEN HA
Artishea Ingram

Artishea Ingram

10 likes

Give them something to do!
Having a busy 2 year old can be a challenge! But I found that the busier they are , the more they need physical stimulation. This makes him feel so confident being able to use his energy toward something he enjoys (helping mommy). It can be so easy to brush them away and keep them “quiet” but acti
Selah DeShazer

Selah DeShazer

3 likes

A grainy, film-style image features a person with light brown hair smiling broadly, wearing a fur-collared coat. The text 'LIFE LATELY' is prominent, along with film overlays like '1/520 F8.0' and '00:00:04:10'. The bottom includes 'LEMON8 FILM FESTIVAL 2024 / IT DOESN'T GET BETTER THAN THIS'.
LIFE HAS BEEN TURNING ME EVERYWAY BUT LOOSE😫
I Can’t even express in a language on how tired I’am! Life is soooo expensive at any angle you look something cost. Groceries are insanely high, Rent or buying a home is high. I even had the bright idea to go get a second job and still could hardly make ends meet and even though it was in my mi
Dejea Sanders

Dejea Sanders

229 likes

A room decorated with rose gold balloons spelling 'KISSING MY TEENS GOODBYE', a champagne bottle, and a red lip balloon. A 'Happy Birthday' balloon floats above. Pink and orange balloons are on the floor. Text asks for 20th birthday ideas and lists favorite things like pink, the beach, and flowers.
Can yall please help give me ideas for 20th BDAY?!
I have no idea what to do I thought about driving somewhere with my Bf maybe a day trip, I want to do something with friends, family and bf separate but what should I do? As like my big day?
Ava Culberson

Ava Culberson

29 likes

The image features a collection of oral hygiene products on a sink, including a bottle of dental oil, a tube of charcoal toothpaste, a bottle of whitening mouthwash, and an electric toothbrush with a light green head. A clear case is also present. The image is framed with text indicating a new year and a fresh start.
Something New
Okay EVERYONE has been talking will give an honest review in 30 days…. #guru nanda pulling oil #oilpulling New to Lemon8! 💰Price: Not Bad Item: Pulling oil+Mint Came with a soft toothbrush and tongue scraper. Item:Mouth wash Item:Crest 3D charcoal toothpaste
🍏💦🍓 Fresh Mama Juice🍹 🍉🌿

🍏💦🍓 Fresh Mama Juice🍹 🍉🌿

10 likes

Am I doing something wrong?
Fall semester has started!..and I’m worried I’m doing it all wrong… So I’m a sophomore this year, I originally planned to stay in the dorms one more year, but Housing messed that up for me (thanks, guys) so I had to get an off campus apartment. Due to this, I have to commute to classes and events
Bee<3

Bee<3

10 likes

Two tall beverage cans, one orange and one green, are displayed on a refrigerator shelf. Both cans feature fruit slice designs and indicate "5g Sugar." Price tags are visible below the cans.
A hand holds a tall blue beverage can with berry-like designs and "5g Sugar" printed on it. The can appears slightly dented, and a refrigerator display is in the background.
A hand holds a tall blue beverage can with fruit designs and "5g Sugar" in a store refrigerator aisle. Various other beverage cans and bottles are visible on the shelves.
QUICK CHECK HAS THE TALL POPPI CANS‼️‼️‼️‼️
Ok so I just randomly went to quick check since my man has never been and we had just got food across the street So we go in and he’s exploring like and I happens to glance over to the drinks and see these tall cans and I thought it was like a new energy drink 😂 so I take a closer look and gasped
Sanaya Alford

Sanaya Alford

12 likes

Don’t give up on meditation!
I’ve had so many people say to me that they “can’t”meditate because they’re “bad” at it! “My mind just won’t be quiet!” Guess what? You noticing that your mind is thinking…that’s the first step to meditation 🫨 give yourself some grace! You just did a meditative “rep” 😂 it’s absolutely a muscle that
Kat Jackson🌿

Kat Jackson🌿

7 likes

God has something for you 🎀🌸😊
”Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.“ ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭7‬-‭8‬ ‭NIV‬‬ #womenofgod #womenoffaith #faithinspired #f
Aeoris

Aeoris

986 likes

A graphic listing 'Things Important for People with BPD' including being listened to, clear communication, emotional validation, and long-term support, with silhouettes of two heads, one distressed.
Text titled 'Dating Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder' by Darian Rehder, outlining six points to understand, such as mood changes, fear of abandonment, triggers, and intense emotions.
A list titled '9 Signs Of Quiet BPD' describing characteristics like suffering internally, high need for control, withdrawal, self-blame, and fear of abandonment or intimacy.
MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS JUST REMEMBER NEVER GIVE UP
#bpdsupport #mentalhealth #2023 your never alone I’m here to share my journey never give up I feel like everyone deals with some mental health issue comment if you want to see more or journal tip ideas im here
Bethany🩷

Bethany🩷

165 likes

sentimental gifts to give on your anniversary!! 🥰
Anniversaries are the BEST time to give a cute, more sentimental gift (compared to other holidays or birthdays)! For our second anniversary, I started making my fiance this scrapbook of all our fav memories :) Now we look back at it every year. I think that something custom and specific to your rel
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

83 likes

Something different to do next time it rains ⛈️✝️
Spending time with Jesus in different environments is something I love experiencing🩵 He wants to spend time with you no matter where you are. So be willing to give the Lord that time that He deserves every day💙 Jesus loves you and so do I :) ***Let me know your favorite place that you spen
Jess🪐☁️✨🫧💛

Jess🪐☁️✨🫧💛

11 likes

See more