I’ve been so focused on myself that most of the time I don’t really notice—or care—what other people say about me. But today, while looking back through my 2026 journal (yes, it’s only August and I’ve documented almost everything 😂), I realized something. The more aware I become of my surroun

If I could talk to the younger version of myself, I think she would probably say: *"He can change."* *"He will follow the right path."* *"He will listen."* *"We will survive this together."* *"One day, we'll get rich and everything will be okay."*

Some people are like seasons. They leave, then return. They promise the sun, then disappear with the rain. At first, I thought they came back because they finally knew what they wanted. Later, I realized some people only stay until life gets comfortable again. The funny thing is, I wasn't

Okay, random thought after reading a book... I used to think the goal was to find the perfect person who could complete my life. But after experiencing different relationships, I learned something more valuable: relationships help you find yourself. They show you what you like and what you don’

I used to look at people whose parents handed them a free house and feel a little left behind. But I’ve had a major mindset shift. I’m building my own home right now. My parents are helping me with 20%, and I’m grinding for the remaining 80%. I finally realized that a house is not a mandatory pare

Dating an eldest daughter is different. We’re not “too much” — we’re just used to carrying alot. We think ahead, We plan, We notice everything. We handle problems quietly before they even reach you. So if you’re with an eldest daughter, understand this: She’s strong… but she still wants to feel

Hi 🍋 Don’t bully me because this is the first gift I’ve ever given to my boyfriend’s mother 🤣🤣. Yes… only at 29 I start meeting a partner’s family, having gatherings, and bonding with them. Everything is quite different from how my family usually does things, but honestly I’m learning a lot about

Expecting to retire in my 60s made me realise that my late 20s aren’t about looking rich — they’re about building stability. Things I slowly stopped paying for: • ❌ Gel nails every month → I do basic nail care at home. Clean nails > fancy nails. • ❌ Eyelash extensions → Mascara is cheaper

A goal is not just a big achievement or something society can see. A goal is the reason you keep going, even when it’s hard. For some people, a goal means: - financial stability - supporting family - building a career - buying a house - getting married But for others — especially those living

As I get closer to 30, my view on love has changed a lot. In my 20s, I thought love had to be intense— the butterflies, the emotional highs and lows, the drama that felt “passionate.” Now, I’m learning that love doesn’t have to be loud to be real. ✨ What past relationships have taught me : 💭

Before I even said yes to someone, I set one thing very clear: - Marriage within 2 years. - Leave your bad habits - Never break promise - Be transparent - Respect each other time — if we plan to meet, be on time! He agreed. I thought we were on the same page… until later, he said, “Why a

Eh, 999 or 916 ah?” 😵‍💫 Fashionable or value? 🤔💛 Don’t worry bestie, I got you 💅 Let’s break it down so you can look cute and make smart gold choices✨ 💛 Why You Should Buy Gold Because gold is not just pretty jewelry 😌✨ ✨ Emergency savings – Can sell when you really need cash ✨ Holds value

Lately, I realised something about myself. I grew up hearing too many good things — from family, from bosses, from people around me. “You’re so smart.” “You’re very innovative.” “You’re attentive, helpful, Trustworthy, kind… etc” At first it felt nice, but slowly… it became pressure. Because

Hi 🍋 let’s talk ! Since I was young, I’ve always received rewards from my parents for every good thing I did. It didn’t have to be big — sometimes it was just kind words, a foods, or a simple reward that made me feel proud of myself. I still remember how my father used to put me on his shoulders

Hi lemons! 🍋 As I step into 29, my view on love has changed a lot. I used to think relationships were all about enjoying the moment, but now I see it’s more about building something real together. These days, I’m not expecting anything big — I just want a partner who’s willing to set goals with me

This post is an update about my interracial relationship 🥹 hahaha I got invited to his grandma’s birthday dinner and honestly… I was so stressed thinking what to buy 😭 I know Chinese usually give angpao to parents or grandparents during birthdays, but I’m not Chinese so I won’t make that a habit 😂

Hi 🍋 story time : I’ve always been someone who doesn’t mind sharing. If it’s a meal, a bill, or time — I give from my heart. Because when I care, I don’t calculate. To me, togetherness matters more than numbers. But as I grow older, I realize something deeper — you can be kind without being

I do have some expectations—or I’d rather say my ideal type of husband in the future (I hope God blesses me with one 🥹). I know we can never find someone exactly the way we wish, because no one is perfect in this world But I’m a Virgo (perfectionist) 🤣, even if it sounds a little irritating, I’m al