Propaganda I’m NOTFALLINGFOR as a SAHM
Propaganda I’m NOT falling for as a Sahm
1 “you’re a mom now. You can’t wear…”
I love being a mother and I love experiencing life with my kiddos BUT whether my hair is in ponytails or I’m wearing a whimsical dress does not effect their ability to enjoy life and in fact can help them understand confidence in themselves and accept others for being different. ❤️
2 all or nothing eating/health habits
I do my best to present my children with healthy foods new foods and health is a main focus HOWEVER I wouldn’t force them to turn dow. Something offered by a friend and I would never shame a mother for offering only unhealthy snacks at a kid’s party. We partake of dye on occasion but avoid it otherwise. We seek balance over here. ✌🏻
3 “Put that baby down! You’ll spoil them rotten!”
Oh come on…we’ve all seen or heard this one. It’s actually ridiculous to me that this was ever a thing. So much science to guide us to the conclusion that leaving a baby to “cry it out” or not responding to a toddler’s emotional needs can have long lasting negative impacts! If I need a minute I take it but I refuse to put my baby down out of the fear that comfort will hurt them.
As a stay-at-home mom (SAHM), confronting societal expectations can be overwhelming. The notion that certain activities, like wearing specific outfits or indulging in occasional junk food, might hinder your children's development is a common misconception. Embracing your personal style and instilling confidence in your children teaches them acceptance and self-love. A common myth is the all-or-nothing approach to eating and lifestyle as a parent. In reality, educating your kids about healthy eating choices while allowing flexibility fosters a balanced attitude towards food. Introducing them to diverse foods can encourage healthier habits without shaming others who may choose alternative snack options. Furthermore, the idea that picking up your baby could lead to spoiling them is rooted in outdated parenting practices. Modern research highlights the significance of responding to infants' needs, which strengthens emotional bonds and promotes well-being. Prioritizing your child's emotional health by providing comfort and security is crucial. In a world filled with conflicting advice, focusing on evidence-based parenting choices can empower you to navigate motherhood confidently. By sharing authentic experiences and insights, you can foster a supportive community that values individual parenting styles and celebrates diversity in motherhood.
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