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Ep.17 Stop blaming fate.

Stop blaming fate because it's a decision.

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... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวและเรื่องราวในบทความนี้ ผมอยากแชร์ว่าการเลิกโทษโชคชะตานั้นเป็นจุดเริ่มต้นที่สำคัญของการเปลี่ยนแปลงชีวิตจริงๆ หลายครั้งที่คนเรามักจะหยุดอยู่กับที่ เพราะเชื่อว่าชีวิตถูกกำหนดด้วยโชคชะตาหรือดวงชะตา แต่ความจริงแล้วทุกอย่างขึ้นอยู่กับการตัดสินใจและความตั้งใจของเราเอง ในภาพบทความมีคำถามที่สะท้อนใจอย่างลึกซึ้งว่า “ทุกวันนี้คุณทำงานหนักหรือเปล่า?” และ “คุณจะเปลี่ยนเกมไหมหรือเพิ่มอีกหนึ่งช่องทาง?” สิ่งนี้ทำให้ผมนึกถึงตอนที่ผมก็อยู่ในสถานการณ์เดิม ทำงานหนักแต่รายได้ไม่ดีขึ้น เพราะผมเลือกเล่นเกมเดิมโดยไม่กล้าหาช่องทางใหม่ๆ แต่เมื่อผมเริ่มกล้าตัดสินใจ เปลี่ยนวิธีคิด ลงมือทำอย่างจริงจัง และเปิดรับโอกาสใหม่ๆ ทั้งการเพิ่มทักษะทางออนไลน์ หรือเริ่มธุรกิจเล็กๆ ผลลัพธ์ชีวิตก็เปลี่ยนตามไปด้วย สิ่งสำคัญคือคุณต้องเชื่อมั่นว่าการเปลี่ยนแปลงเป็นไปได้ และไม่ต้องกลัวความล้มเหลว การอยู่ในที่เดิมแบบปีที่แล้วจะไม่สร้างอนาคตที่ต่างไปจากเดิม ดังนั้น เริ่มต้นด้วยการประเมินตัวเองจริงๆ ว่าชีวิตเป็นอย่างไร แล้วตั้งเป้าหมายใหม่ วางแผน และลงมือทำเลย เพราะทุกวันนี้ไม่มีอะไรตัดสินโชคชะตาได้ดีเกินกว่าการลงมือทำและความตั้งใจของเราเอง

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