As a black autistic woman with level 1 and 2 support needs, i am exhausted. As an artist, i am exhausted. I feel like nobody no matter what i pay them, no matter what i explain to them, no matter what i give them… nobody wants to be here for me. Nobody wants to protect me.

There are some that want to because they want access to my body and the circles that I’m in but unfortunately there’s no skill involved there that can help me.

My main life goal is to continue to have access to enough resource to where i can protect myself as much as possible and to do that i just need to have a successful singing career.

2025/9/8 Edited to

... Read moreLiving as a Black autistic woman with support needs, especially levels 1 and 2, presents unique challenges that extend beyond everyday obstacles. Many individuals in similar circumstances report feeling unseen and misunderstood, particularly when seeking support that genuinely addresses their needs rather than superficial interactions. The exhaustion expressed in this narrative rings true for many who find that, despite best efforts and resources allocated, true protection and understanding remain elusive. The industry and social circles the author mentions often involve dynamics where others may seek access for personal gain rather than providing meaningful help. This can create environments where exploitation replaces support, further deepening feelings of isolation. It's vital for communities and support systems to develop skills and awareness tailored specifically to the needs of autistic individuals, recognizing their unique experiences and providing empathetic, competent assistance. Achieving a successful singing career as a pathway to personal protection and resource access highlights the intersection of passion and survival. For many marginalized people, creative expression is more than art; it's a lifeline and a means to gain autonomy. Success in such fields can open doors to financial independence and empowerment. Moreover, the phrases captured by the OCR, such as "TIRED OF BEING", "EVERY DAY I", and "NEED HELP", reflect the daily struggles and urgent needs voiced by many autistic individuals navigating complex systems. These expressions underscore the importance of ongoing advocacy, improved communication, and genuine allyship. To foster better support structures, it is essential to listen closely to voices like this and promote education around autism, especially within minority communities, where intersectional challenges may compound the experience. As society moves forward, creating inclusive, skilled, and caring environments will be crucial in helping individuals protect their autonomy while pursuing their dreams.

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