Hey guys, I had a lot of response from you guys from my first room tour a little while ago, and I wanted to update. While my room is obviously still mostly the same, I wanted to post this to show that things tend to get a little messy. While I still love my room and it is my safe haven, when it does get messy and cluttered like this it can make my mental state feel similarly. I don’t always have the energy to make sure my room is in a proper state, and that’s okay. While I didn’t fully get into it, Although in general my room is messier this go round, I’ve made strides in organizing smaller spaces within my space. I highly recommend looking into drawer organizers! Anyways, I hope you guys enjoy this tour as much as the first one. I tried to focus on labeling new or different stuff than last time:) Have a good day though lemon 8ers✨ #roomtour#adhdroom#embracevulnerability#Lemon8Diary#foryoupage#fyp#messygirlaesthetic#adhd
2024/3/16 Edited to
... Read moreHey everyone! Following up on my recent room tour, I wanted to dive a little deeper into what it really means to have an 'ADHD room' – and why embracing the beautiful chaos can sometimes be the most functional aesthetic of all. It’s not about achieving a Pinterest-perfect look, but rather about creating a space that genuinely works for *you*, even when it's a bit messy.
For so long, I felt guilty about my 'cluttered room' or the 'ADHD mess' that seemed to accumulate no matter how hard I tried. But I've realized that the 'ADHD aesthetic' is often one of authenticity and comfort. It's about 'curating [a space] where pieces are supposed to go naturally,' even if that natural place isn't always perfectly hidden away. My tall wooden bookshelf, for example, is a perfect illustration. It's not just books; it's also where my favorite stuffed animals live, alongside perfumes and little trinkets. Having everything visible, even if it looks a bit jumbled, often helps me remember I own it and use it.
Let's talk practicalities, because while embracing the mess is one thing, finding ways to manage it is another. I mentioned drawer organizers before, and they're lifesavers! But what about those other areas? My clothing rack, despite its broken bottom section, still serves its purpose. For clothes that end up there, I try to categorize them roughly. For smaller items, those earring and necklace organizers are clutch. On my wooden dresser, which often hosts random jewelry, switch controllers, incense, and a collection of candles, I’ve found that small trays or decorative bowls can make a huge difference. They don't necessarily organize everything perfectly, but they create designated 'homes' for things, making the surface look less like a chaotic dump zone and more like an intentional collection.
And for things like medical supplies – a big part of my personal space, as you might have seen with my dialysis cycler and the corner filled with paper towels, tissues, gloves, and hand sanitizer – integration is key. Instead of hiding them away where I’ll forget them, I try to make them accessible but contained. A cute basket or a designated shelf (like my shelf with the diffuser and prescriptions) can make these essential items blend in a little more seamlessly without adding extra mental load to remember where they are. Even my 'pizza plate' moment next to the cycler sometimes happens, and that's okay. It's about balance!
Ultimately, my 'ADHD messy room' isn't a failure; it’s a reflection of my energy levels and how my brain works. It's a journey of self-compassion. If you’re also struggling with a space that feels overwhelming, try focusing on one small area at a time. Maybe it's just gathering all your lip balm and meds into one small drawer, or making sure your squish toy (like my Pillar or Meadow) has a clear spot on the bed. It's about finding joy and comfort in your surroundings, not striving for an unattainable ideal. Embrace your unique 'alt DIY room decor' that makes your space truly *yours*.
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